Youths ask question like these: I'm still a virgin, is there something wrong with me having sex,and loving someone? or should I wait until am married?
Only exceptional young people who have not had sexual intercourse while still a teenager. Research has proven that eight in ten males and six in ten females have had intercourse while in their teen.
What is wrong with a youth having sex, after all it is natural to feel loved and to consummate it sexually?.
Young people have strong passion, that if not checked can lead to distraction.
Peer group as it is commonly said, has great influence. They may tell you that nothing is wrong with premarital sex. They say it is just fun to love someone, and to naturally want to be intimate.
Have you heard this before? That having sex proves your manhood or womanhood. So many youths in order not to look odd may feel under pressure to experience sexual relationship.
However, the influence of youths over others to want to experience sex, there are some who are not in hurry to give up their virginity.
Joy, a young girl of sixteen, one day went to see her doctor for a check up. The doctor after checking her asked as a matter of fact what type of contraceptive she was using. Joy replied, "I'm not using any"
"What!" the doctor exclaimed. "you mean you are not using any preventive. Supposing you get pregnant?"
Joy looked at him and said, "I can't get pregnant, because I don't have sex".
The doctor could not believe what he heard for a young girl of her age not to have sex.
Then the doctor enquired, "What is the secret?". Joy looked at him and said, I obey the Bible's admonitions that warned against having sex".
The scripture said,"Now the body is not for fornication, but for the lord. and the lord for the body(1cor.6:13)"
Joy recognized that prematital sex was a sin with great consequences. What are those consequences? Join me in the next post.
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