Should a youth fight? This question came because my son just came back from school with a plaster on his ear. When I asked him what was the matter he told me that he fought with a fellow student. When he said that it really pained me. So for that reason I want to share with you why a youth should not fight.
Reasons Why A Youth Should Not Fight.
1. Fighting can result to death. When I was caustioning my son why he must not involve himself again in fighting I told him it could result to death.If he did not kill his opponent, his opponent could.
2. Fighting is a sin. As a christian to fight is a sin.Our lord Jesus told us to forgive those who offend us therefore to really maintain christian faith no youth should engain in fighting.
3. Fighting is a sign of inmaturity. Matured people believe in dialogue than fighting. Instead of fighting why not find out how to let peace reign.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
THE IMPORTANCE OF COURTSHIP. A MUST READ TO EVERY YOUTH
Courtship is the time you and your wife or husband to be know each other. This is meant to know each other so well before finally deciding to go into marriage.
Marriage without courtship is bound to collapse. The reason is that in courtship you study each other’s characters. Because what sustains marriage is a good character, during courtship the main aim is character studying.
Because courtship requires the presence of the two partners, therefore distance relationship does not work at all.
Again don’t ever accept any marriage proposal of a person you have not known too well. The reason is that most people who did so lived to regret till date.
Things You Should Know About Your Husband To Be?
1. His relationship with God. The reason is that marriage without God will not succeed. The bible says, “without me you can do nothing” Jon. 15:5
2. Does he have a good job? Yes he must he a job. How do you think your marriage relationship will work when your husband to be is applicant? Where is he going to get the morning for the traditional and church wedding?
3. He should show commitment. This is the ability to remain with you till death- do- part. He shouldn’t be interested only in having sex with you, this has been the reasons many youths enter into relationship.After sex they abandon their partners.
4. He must have the spirit of courage. Courage is the ability to endure the test of marriage. Every marriage must pass through the acid test of life. It comes in various ways. To know more about what are the acid test of life join me in the next post.
Marriage without courtship is bound to collapse. The reason is that in courtship you study each other’s characters. Because what sustains marriage is a good character, during courtship the main aim is character studying.
Because courtship requires the presence of the two partners, therefore distance relationship does not work at all.
Again don’t ever accept any marriage proposal of a person you have not known too well. The reason is that most people who did so lived to regret till date.
Things You Should Know About Your Husband To Be?
1. His relationship with God. The reason is that marriage without God will not succeed. The bible says, “without me you can do nothing” Jon. 15:5
2. Does he have a good job? Yes he must he a job. How do you think your marriage relationship will work when your husband to be is applicant? Where is he going to get the morning for the traditional and church wedding?
3. He should show commitment. This is the ability to remain with you till death- do- part. He shouldn’t be interested only in having sex with you, this has been the reasons many youths enter into relationship.After sex they abandon their partners.
4. He must have the spirit of courage. Courage is the ability to endure the test of marriage. Every marriage must pass through the acid test of life. It comes in various ways. To know more about what are the acid test of life join me in the next post.
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Why You Should Not Have Sex Before Marriage?
Youths ask question like these: I'm still a virgin, is there something wrong with me having sex,and loving someone? or should I wait until am married?
Only exceptional young people who have not had sexual intercourse while still a teenager. Research has proven that eight in ten males and six in ten females have had intercourse while in their teen.
What is wrong with a youth having sex, after all it is natural to feel loved and to consummate it sexually?.
Young people have strong passion, that if not checked can lead to distraction.
Peer group as it is commonly said, has great influence. They may tell you that nothing is wrong with premarital sex. They say it is just fun to love someone, and to naturally want to be intimate.
Have you heard this before? That having sex proves your manhood or womanhood. So many youths in order not to look odd may feel under pressure to experience sexual relationship.
However, the influence of youths over others to want to experience sex, there are some who are not in hurry to give up their virginity.
Joy, a young girl of sixteen, one day went to see her doctor for a check up. The doctor after checking her asked as a matter of fact what type of contraceptive she was using. Joy replied, "I'm not using any"
"What!" the doctor exclaimed. "you mean you are not using any preventive. Supposing you get pregnant?"
Joy looked at him and said, "I can't get pregnant, because I don't have sex".
The doctor could not believe what he heard for a young girl of her age not to have sex.
Then the doctor enquired, "What is the secret?". Joy looked at him and said, I obey the Bible's admonitions that warned against having sex".
The scripture said,"Now the body is not for fornication, but for the lord. and the lord for the body(1cor.6:13)"
Joy recognized that prematital sex was a sin with great consequences. What are those consequences? Join me in the next post.
Only exceptional young people who have not had sexual intercourse while still a teenager. Research has proven that eight in ten males and six in ten females have had intercourse while in their teen.
What is wrong with a youth having sex, after all it is natural to feel loved and to consummate it sexually?.
Young people have strong passion, that if not checked can lead to distraction.
Peer group as it is commonly said, has great influence. They may tell you that nothing is wrong with premarital sex. They say it is just fun to love someone, and to naturally want to be intimate.
Have you heard this before? That having sex proves your manhood or womanhood. So many youths in order not to look odd may feel under pressure to experience sexual relationship.
However, the influence of youths over others to want to experience sex, there are some who are not in hurry to give up their virginity.
Joy, a young girl of sixteen, one day went to see her doctor for a check up. The doctor after checking her asked as a matter of fact what type of contraceptive she was using. Joy replied, "I'm not using any"
"What!" the doctor exclaimed. "you mean you are not using any preventive. Supposing you get pregnant?"
Joy looked at him and said, "I can't get pregnant, because I don't have sex".
The doctor could not believe what he heard for a young girl of her age not to have sex.
Then the doctor enquired, "What is the secret?". Joy looked at him and said, I obey the Bible's admonitions that warned against having sex".
The scripture said,"Now the body is not for fornication, but for the lord. and the lord for the body(1cor.6:13)"
Joy recognized that prematital sex was a sin with great consequences. What are those consequences? Join me in the next post.
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